"Hoovering." You may not have heard the term, but if you have experienced an on-again/off-again roller coaster relationship. you have been Hoovered at least once. This small book, which you can read in the time you would devote to a psychotherapy session, spells out what Hoovering is, how it works to keep you stuck in a toxic relationship, and what you can do to make yourself "Hoover-immune." You'll learn about classic Hoover maneuvers and about the principles and strategies you can adopt to help you become Un-Hooverable. 

Amber Ault is a psychotherapist who specializes in working with partners and family members of people who meet the criteria for Narcissistic, Borderline, and Anti-social Personality Disorders. Like her other books, this brief text offers you a quick introduction to core concepts and skills you need to live happily and well, and to create peaceful, joyous relationships free of crazy-making drama.​